If I Had 7 Years to Live… I Would Live Very Differently
- Mar 30
- 2 min read
Transformational Coaching in London for Women Ready for Truth, Alignment & Embodied Leadership
There’s something I’ve been sitting with recently.
With everything happening in the world-and the war in Iran, my home country-life feels closer. More real.
The distance between now and not being here doesn’t feel theoretical anymore.
It feels… present.

A Question That Changed Everything
This morning, during my cacao ritual and a quiet walk in nature, I asked myself a simple question:
If I only had a limited amount of time left… how would I actually live?
I played with time.
One day.
One week.
One month.
Six months.
Two years.
Five years.
Seven years.
And what came through wasn’t complicated.
It was deeply simple.
What Became Clear
I wouldn’t rush.
I wouldn’t fill my days with things that don’t matter.
I wouldn’t attend meetings that feel heavy or meaningless.
I wouldn’t continue performing a version of success that disconnects me from myself.
I would slow down.
I would spend time with my son - fully, deeply, without distraction.
I would be in nature more.
I would choose love over productivity.
Presence over pressure.
And I would let my life feel like life again.

The Truth Most Women Don’t Say Out Loud
And this is what I see again and again in the women I work with.
They’ve created success.
The title is there.The income is there.
The recognition is there.
But if they were completely honest…
They wouldn’t choose the life they’re currently living.
Not because they’ve done something wrong.
But because they’ve outgrown a version of success that no longer reflects who they truly are.
This Is Where Real Transformation Begins
Not with more strategy.
Not with more doing.
But with truth.
The kind of truth that doesn’t come from the mind, but from the body.
From slowing down enough to actually feel:
👉 What matters
👉 What doesn’t
👉 What is aligned
👉 What is no longer yours to carry
This is where the shift happens.
From performing…
to living.
From external validation…
to internal authority.
From pressure…
to presence.
This Is The Work I Hold Space For
I don’t just help women build businesses.
I support high-achieving women in returning to themselves - so the life and leadership they create actually feels like home.
If you are in that space…where something inside you knows:
“This isn’t fully it anymore.”
You’re not lost.
You’re at a threshold.
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✦ Final Reflection ✦
If your time was limited…
Would you be living the life you’re living now?
And if not-
What is ready to change?




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